tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4982495311070974364.post5653346576022260376..comments2024-01-08T14:52:51.471-08:00Comments on The Rowdy Stroudy's: reading and not-so-nice wordsCarriehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13896293949728093187noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4982495311070974364.post-85027803502558683592012-01-25T19:00:10.661-08:002012-01-25T19:00:10.661-08:00I’ve gotten to the point where I won’t even read a...I’ve gotten to the point where I won’t even read a book at all if it has a cuss word, inappropriate scene or violence in it and I’ve made the same standard for my kids. Will they hear it, see it, or experience it at school or elsewhere? Perhaps, but why expose them to it, or allow it, if deep down you’re not ok with it. That’s my two cents...not that you cared...but I love reading your blog, so I thought I’d share anyway =)<br /><br />LaurenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4982495311070974364.post-86102298927322796322012-01-24T20:10:08.785-08:002012-01-24T20:10:08.785-08:00I've edited a few books before...once as a pub...I've edited a few books before...once as a public service to the library's book. Ha ha. But usually, if language starts in the first couple of chapters, I'll just put the book down. This response is directly related to a book I read when I was 19. It had a lot of f-bombs. I knew that when I told a friend to f-off that the language affected me. I was shocked to hear it come out of my otherwise clean mouth. <br /><br />Some books are fine on language though and the content is bad. When I was 12, I was reading a book with an unfamiliar phrase in it. I asked my mom, "what is oral sex?" She asked me what I was reading and then answered my question. Because my mother always answered my questions, I kept coming to her with more questions as I grew older. I believe that is important. <br /><br />With my children (oldest is 8), I plan on letting them read most anything that is age appropriate. Because I love to read, I would like to read what they are reading and be able to discuss the stories and issues. I used to do that with my mom. It was through the discussions that I was able to decide for myself what I should and should not read. <br /><br />You've definitely done something right if Brianna is making up her mind to not read something that she knows she shouldn't.Bridgethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17064616370181183885noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4982495311070974364.post-31308630534257152362012-01-24T09:08:40.410-08:002012-01-24T09:08:40.410-08:00I only have a two year old and 4 month old so I ca...I only have a two year old and 4 month old so I can't tell you what I would do but my sister in law has a 13 year old and loves to read but my sil reads all the books first and tells her whether or not itsok to read. I remember my mom used to sharpie books but I was so young and naive. I would ask her what happened to the book and she said misprint...haha talk about avoiding but she is an awesom e mom. Good luck. Your daughter knows what is right and wrong. You have to trust her I guess.Cody and Danicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10121005739169955117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4982495311070974364.post-14395288572369470062012-01-24T06:25:02.638-08:002012-01-24T06:25:02.638-08:00I think she's already learned what she needs t...I think she's already learned what she needs to: If she's uncomfortable with the content, it's time to put it down. <br /><br />It does get difficult as they get older and their reading levels call for books with content that is too mature for their age. I have one friend whose 7th grade daughter wanted to read Jody Piccolti(sp?)'s My Sister's Keeper -since it was a popular movie at that point -so she read it first and took a sharpie to words and paragraphs, and in some places she even stapled pages together... all to clean it up to a 'PG' level. Her daughter was perfectly happy with the arrangement because she didn't want to read the bad stuff either. I thought that was a pretty smart solution.heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15546104584847875114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4982495311070974364.post-88410087040671868742012-01-23T19:55:55.707-08:002012-01-23T19:55:55.707-08:00Reading this makes me so glad I don't have tee...Reading this makes me so glad I don't have teenagers. They are exposed to so much stuff in music, TV and books. They need to have the strength to NOT give those people a voice.<br /><br />I have no idea. I taught and prayed and hoped as I was raising my kids and then hung on for the wild ride.Welcome to the Garden of Eganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10132446191608085958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4982495311070974364.post-56861297531812817192012-01-23T18:52:27.582-08:002012-01-23T18:52:27.582-08:00That has always been a struggle with my daughters....That has always been a struggle with my daughters. kat--who is in 9th grade now--absorbs books in minutes and it's hard to keep up. By the time she was in middle school, while I always googled the book and asked for the parent reviews. I relaxed. But, one thing that has bothered me about youth books is that Harlequin has a teen line of books that don't really look like theirs. They are not like the adult versions but they are a lot heavier than other books. But, as a mother of teens now, I'm still cautious about what they read, sad news is there is a lot of trash out there that is clouded in a pretty cover that looks great. I'm not so concerned about the not-so-nice words now because they overlook them, I worry so much more about the content and what the characters are doing. So fun being a mom these days. Long gone are the days of wonderful books like Jane Eyre... Which she reads all of those too---It is a must!!!!! Good Luck... It's a journey!!!Pittman Fourhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02608308266494772481noreply@blogger.com