The Rowdy Stroudy's

princess & the pea homemade artwork

2012-01-28T17:03:00.000-08:00

A good Mom-Daughter craft:

A couple years ago I read Brianna the princess and the pea book and she went nuts over it. SO we decided to make some artwork on a 16x20 canvas with some paper, paint, and modge podge. I'm not much of an artist when it comes to painting, but it was fun to do with my kiddo regardless of how messy it looks and it's cute hanging up on her wall.

The first thing we did was paint the canvas in a pretty pink and went from light to dark to add some dimension and shadowing. I know...I know...I lied...I am totally a painter....and we painted some brown bed posts (which probably would have looked less sloppy in paper).

Then we tore and cut a bunch of scrapbook paper into strips for the bed layers and canopy to place on top of one another--and then put our princess together with a few abstract pieces and shapes using modge podge--then sealed it all with a clear coat. If you have the scissors that make curvy shapes or scallops or whatever that is the way to go.

Voila! Just TRY to find that pea now:)

Yell

2012-01-27T14:53:00.000-08:00

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I'm gonna talk about my husband having Multiple Sclerosis for a sec, k?

There are times when your husband tells you that he just can't manage to take the dog out because 1/2 his body had been numb for the entire week and all you want to do is yell at him for not telling you and then yell at the fact that you feel bad about wanting to yell at him and then yell at the fact that you have to do mostly everything because this week--hello--even though he has been working on his new business nonstop--after that workday he cannot physically muster up the energy to help put the kids to bed one night and you just want to yell yell yell about this crappy part of life that you both have been dealt. I do the majority of the yelling in my head, mind you, but gosh I HATE MS!

I know he will get better this time (sometimes I haven't) and I know that I just need to be patient and let him rest rest rest so his body will heal but this does NOT get any easier as time goes on. I don't think it ever will. I kept feeling so good...SO good about how he has been for the past 2 years and we have been careful about making sure he sleeps enough and doesn't get too stressed...but then some stupid side effect hits and although this is so extremely mild...how in the hell am I supposed to be "oh no problem, hon" when your husband tells you that 1/2 of his body is numb and he is having a hard time freaking WALKING?

I hate it I hate it I hate it.

I just want to cry. And yell. And calm down. And feel peace. And all of the above.

It will be okay it will be okay it will be okay.

It will.

When you send your wedding announcement to the President...

2012-01-26T22:03:00.000-08:00

 This is what you get back.

It's for REALZ people. No joke. Real pen.

My mom thought it would be fun to send Rowdy and my wedding announcement to the White House so the fact that we got this in return was awesome!

***I was going through my oldies but goodies box and oh my heavens I have some good stuff that I have kept from way back when. Complete with overalls. Aren't you so totally excited to see? If you sent me a letter in high school...be afraid...be very afraid...

Leibster Award and pass'n it on...

2012-01-26T15:32:00.000-08:00

The other day I got an email saying that I had received the cute Leibster Award from Twiddler House. How so very nice! Not knowing anything about it, I was pleasantly surprised to read that:

Liebster is  German and means ‘dearest’ or ‘beloved’-- but it can also mean  ‘favorite’. The Liebster award was created to give some attention to those  blogs with less than 200 followers.  

In accepting the award, you are supposed to follow these rules:

1. Show your thanks to the blogger who gave you the award by linking back to them.

2. Reveal your five picks for the award and let them know. 

3. Post the award on your blog. 

4. Bask in the love from the most supportive people on the blogshare-other bloggers. 

5. Finally and the best rule of all………have fun and spread the love! 

And now here are my 5 faves that follow the guidelines for the award so you can check these lovelies out:

My Infernal Journal

A Goddess in Progress

Hanging by a Silver Lining

Leenie & Crew

Thoughts of a Doctor's Wife

How to tell your friend that they are going to China

2012-01-25T10:00:00.000-08:00

In celebration of the Chinese New Year (which we love around here as seen in this post)... I decided to show you how my BFF told me she is flying me to come see her in China in March (wahoo!). It was really simple and fun and I highly recommend this gift-giving idea. Well, I mean, if you want to send your friend to China...otherwise using this fun way to say that you are going to the movies could work, too;)

Via a mini photo album regarding our long distance relationship for the past 10 years...

(Mary is an artist so these stick figures had me rolling!)

Slurpee

2012-01-24T08:42:00.000-08:00

 (This is some random guys instagram picture.  If I had an i-phone I would have a picture of myself--but unless one of my lovely readers buys me one, you get to look at some stranger's man-hands)

Have you guys had a 7-11 slurpee recently?  It's been yeeeeeaaaaaarrrrrrsssssss for me, but recently I decided to do a drive-by (oh yes I DID just get all gangsta on you) and get my kiddo this delicious treat.  It was blue and cold and tangy and invigorating and oh-glorious-goodness it was mighty fine.

In other news, I have been contemplating that this summer Rowdy and I will have been married for TWELVE years and that kinda makes me weirded out because it kinda makes me feel old. It's a horrible way to look at it, so instead I have decided to approach the large number by calling it a DOZEN. Doesn't that just seem so much more romantic?

Peace out.

reading and not-so-nice words

2012-01-23T12:14:00.000-08:00

There is a second-hand children's clothing store in Federal Way, Wa that I always go to for my kids clothes.  It's not too close to me, but whenever I run to our storage locker I always hit the place up for anything glorious (as seen here).  This time meant a glorious buy 2 get 1 free coupon when you sign up for their email list. Sadly Brianna has now officially outgrown the consignment store sizes...but I can still find Kai things and there are always books and toys and baby stuff that I can't wait to get my hands on again.  When I started going there 6 years ago we found Brianna a princess crown and wand and so it has forever been named the "crown store" in our household.  

Going to the "crown store" is always a treat.

While browsing through some books Brianna picked a certain one up-- The Princess Diaries.  I told her I thought the writing was a few grade levels ahead of her since it was quite novel-like, but she insisted and who am I to hinder a mature reading ability?  We saw the movie so I knew it was cute and left it at that and she began reading it right away.

Today she came to me and said.."uhmm....this might not be a good book for me to read, Mom."  I asked why and she showed me a sentence that said the "a" word.  I thought about it a second and made the decision that it was okay for her to continue reading it after our candid conversation since she knew the word was inappropriate to even bring it up to me. 

Then she came back a few minutes later and said, "Mom...I really don't think I should be reading this."  I read another sentence thinking it would be along the same line when I was surprised by a wierd word.

So ya... we're going to hold off on that particular book--but I have to ask what age is it even appropriate at all?  It looked like 6 grade+ reading and although I understood the context of how and why each word was said, I still don't want my kid reading words like that.

I am realistic.  I think, unfortunately, kids are exposed to not-so-nice words and phrases because this is the world that we live in.  I try to  teach my kids what words are not nice and inappropriate and send them off into the world hoping that not only will they not say them but try to ignore them when they are heard.  So when reading-- it is sometimes tough to decipher whether you should ignore certain words in moderation or completely eliminate the option of them being read. I recognize that in retrospect those words are not the worst--although in this context they were meant as a negative statement which makes them such. 

I am really curious what other parents do? At what age would you let her read that book, if at all? And when she IS older, is there a point when you need to trust your child's judgement without being overprotective?

In our home we are pretty open on the right or wrong scenario.  Maybe this is not the ideal technique, but when Brianna comes to me with questions regarding something that might be deemed a "gray" area-- like attending a birthday party on Sunday which is a religious day for us...I just ask her whether or not she thinks it's right or wrong based on what we have taught her and to figure it out and come back to me and we'll discuss.  She's a smart girl and she KNOWS.  And she always comes back with a good "right" answer. 

So I wonder, is literature the same? What's your opinion? 

PS. I am really liking THIS helpful site for ratings/reviews on media.   

Keyword Search

2012-01-23T09:24:00.000-08:00

(got milk? baby shower)

Taking my inspiration from THIS funny post, I thought it would be fun to check out my search engine stats to see what brings people to my blog. I am actually really surprised that my hits seem to mainly be from searches regarding party ideas which only consist of about 1/4 of my content. What happened to the search for "BEST BLOG EVER" ??? I should for sure come up, right?

Here they are exactly as written:

got milk baby shower

milk and cookies shower

baby bottles with straws shower

milk baby shower

storybook baby shower

storybook shower invitations

baby shower library theme

nursery rhyme baby shower

valentine's martha stewart

lemon party ideas

lemon themed games

lemon themed bridal shower

pamper the mommy shower

fort kit

talent show backgrounds

lost wallet

lost purse

the rowdy

rowdy stroudy

my worst wedding in valentine's day

mcdonaald's introduces chocolate dipped ice cream cone

talking to daughter about growing up

messy kids room
hot mama (haha--just kidding--I wish)

hmmmmmmmmm.....

It certainly makes me re-think my blog content! What do you think? Do I need to refocus my blog purpose to be a little less about my actual life and more about parties and fun stuff? Or can you settle for my day to day? ;)

Because my SIL doesn't believe that we got any snow...

2012-01-20T13:59:00.000-08:00

The snow has melted a TON today and it's just more of a slushy icy mess right now from the rain...but here is proof for my SIL Carmella that we have recently been covered in white.

Finally able to shovel the sidewalks today

Snowy Thoughts and Hot Chocolate

2012-01-19T00:11:00.000-08:00

(a yummy hot cocoa cupcake to go with my hot cocoa at hello, cupcake in tacoma)

+ The kids are out of school for a snow day again! 

+ Just wanted to say that I think I am the last person on the planet that does not own an iphone.  And I am okay with that.  For now.

+ I made brownies 3 days in a row.  No joke.  I don't know where they went each day which is why I kept having to remake them!

+ I also made homemade meatballs. And homemade french bread.  And come to think of it I just did a lot of cooking since I had a 3 day weekend.

+ I recently did a photo session of a sweet little girl adopted from China in the worst possible weather ever.  And oh how I loved that this family was so stellar and cool about it and willing to brave the wind and rain.  I guess ending the session with cupcakes and a pink bicycle made it worth it!

+ I got a call from my son's school saying that he decided to head-butt himself on the lunch table, so don't be alarmed with the bruise. What was he thinking?

+ The plan is by May 1st. What plan am I talking about, you ask? I guess you'll have to wait and see...

Winter Wonderland

2012-01-18T14:18:00.000-08:00

Today we are having a much anticipated snow storm and I am LOVING it.  In Seattle we don't get a lot of snow--just rain--and although it's only about 30 minutes to the mountains to go play in the white powdery stuff in the winter, nothing beats looking out your window at a Winter Wonderland.

So today, even though I have to work, I  took a break with my family on a trip to walk 2 blocks North to the post office, and then 6 blocks South to the grocery store to pick up a few things for dinner, and then 8 blocks back to my office for me to work some more while they continue to stay outside and make snow angels.  It doesn't sound like much of a trip--but then you obviously weren't walking with my son who stopped every 2 feet to make and throw a snowball! Patience is a virtue that I am trying to have. I am so happy that they can continue playing outside and sad for myself for being cooped up in an office while my white dream is just a step away and laughter is heard at a distance.  The one thing warming my heart right now is the knowledge that Rowdy's amazing gumbo will be simmering on the stove when I get home.

I love today.

love note jars

2012-01-13T12:25:00.000-08:00

I am NOT a Valentine's Day fan.  In fact, I really shy away from it.  But then I started thinking that my kids like it--so I should probably like it for their sakes.

So I made some Love Note Jars using color inspiration from one of my favorite books of love poems (I shy away from the cheesy pink hearts). Maybe they look silly...I don't know. But the kids like them and they already started to put notes in them and we can read them all on Valentine's day.

Go ahead... you can do the "awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww how sweeeeeeettt..." now.

I'm rolling over how it says "back"-- just happens to be our initials and I accidentally lined it up that way.

I have a pen out and these little I Love You Because...pieces of paper near the jars so we can fill them out whenever we want. I did tell everyone that we probably shouldn't write lots of love notes to ourselves;)

like the color combo? bring on the gaudy reds and golds!

(yo r osaam dad = you are awesome dad)

Happy Love Note Writing!

Yesterday

2012-01-11T10:15:00.000-08:00

+ Finished reading the Hunger Games series. I didn't love the last book-- but I read all three books in three days so I was probably too pumped. Otherwise..intense and a good read. I tried telling Rowdy how much I was liking them and he said, "Children killing each other? Are you crazy? That is awful and I will never read that." Am I just warped or something?

+ I found out that I have MLK Monday off of work. Wahoo! That means that I will have had (3) 3 day weekends in the last month. Awesome. Should we do anything spectacular? Like clean the bathrooms, maybe?

+ I had a drop-by at work from some new friends.  That was just nice. But they didn't bring any treats. What's up with that? New friend manners, people...always bring treats.

+ Speaking of treats, I am sure glad they didn't bring any because I have started my new 30 day challenge (thank you Jocelyn) to stay under my allotted caloric intake. That's cooler than saying I am counting calories.  Day 2 is off to a good start.

+ Rowdy tried to buy a changing table from pottery barn that was a screaming good deal. On his own.  He was totally going to buy it and I'm not even pregnant.  How cute is that?(sad...out of stock)

+ I was so proud of myself for remembering to grab a redbox movie off the counter before I left the house and returning it only to find out he just rented it.  OOPS. Go ahead...LOL...

and oh! The sun is shining here today in Seattle and I am oh-so-grateful for that!  

What does family mean?

2012-01-10T01:20:00.000-08:00

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I have hesitated writing this post and frankly, it brings me a lot of anxiety--but sometimes I think truth overrides the pain.  Sometimes you need to let go of what was and concentrate on what IS and what WILL BE.  And sometimes that comes with a price.

I want to write about FAMILY.

The holidays were hard for us and I am still feeling the after-pain.  It is difficult when problems arise amongst family members and it is even more difficult when they are not resolved.  And when there is a possibility of them never being resolved...whether out of self-preservation or forgiveness not being given...it hurts.

The thing is--we are always taught that family is the most important thing and that we should always remain loyal to that.  Frankly, it makes me sad when I see and know of families that well...seem to have their stuff together.  Where two parents have lovingly raised their children and although there are always growing pains...there seems to be a sense of functioning that I have never experienced.  This is such a sensitive subject for me because I don't desire to show the negativity of where I have come from or what I have known through marriage.  I guess I just desire to be real here.  The realness is that I am not from a family that functions well and I don't believe it ever will...and I have yet to personally experience one in my life that does.  

I am not naive to think that I am so different than everyone and that the rest of the world lives with white picket fences because everyone has issues, some far far worse than mine.  But what I do know is that my life has not been rose-colored whether by the actions of my family members or my own.  And it has in fact consisted of relationships that have been extremely difficult.  And that painful decisions have had to be made because of it.

And so I ask--what IS a family?  To me a family is full of people who love you.  People who forgive easily.  People who do not judge or demean or manipulate.  Whether that consists of one person or many--that love is the same between each other.  Where there is no abandonment and speaking with your loved ones brings peace and not turmoil.  Where there is no devils advocate (who wants to be that anyway?) and instead a voice of guidance.  Family is a place you want to be. It is the knowledge of unconditional love surrounding you. 

With recent happenings and past experiences I have had to assess my life and wonder how to create that--how to control or play the part in a way that brings about such a family (which..uhmm...is quite difficult with my temper).  And shockingly...the answer I have received is to do nothing.  The only people that matter are my husband and my children. And as much as it aches to separate myself from the possibility of having an extended family that I dream about... I know that my only concentration should be on me and my own and with those who seek the same things.  And that maybe the only thing I can do is give the gift of what family really means to my children.  And the way to do that is to focus on and shower THEM with unconditional love so they know the security of it.   

Sometimes I have been wounded, sometimes I have been the one whose actions were uncalled for, and still I have to ask myself how I should proceed.  I have decided to stand with my own because I think that space and time can be good. For me, the only thing that resonates deeper than the pain of for now letting family members go...is peace.  

a perfect moment

2012-01-09T00:09:00.000-08:00

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I was recently asked if I remembered a "perfect moment" in my life where all the stars aligned and I felt right with the world.  My mind raced to of course--my marriage, having each of my children, buying our first house, even all the way back to my childhood when Billy Lewis confessed his undying love for me in front of all his friends-- 

But then my mind rested on a moment that honestly, I am not sure if any others can top.

I remember laying in bed really early in the morning hearing both Kai and Brianna waking up.  I knew that in just a second they would both barrel into my room asking for breakfast and that I would somehow pull myself out of bed and begin my day...exhausted...as usual. 

And then I suddenly realized that my children had grown a bit and that Brianna was perfectly capable of pouring herself a bowl of cereal.  Then I realized that Kai was perfectly capable of eating a bowl of cereal. And so the moment in all it's glory happened...

Once the children came skipping into the room with their needs, I half-sleepily said, "Brianna...could you get your brother some breakfast and let me sleep a few more minutes?" (yawn)

She said, "Sure, Mom!" and went to work. 

Perfect moment, indeed.

A New Year guest post by Jackie

2012-01-08T07:54:00.000-08:00

Hello there, lovely readers. 

My name is Jackie, and I live at the House of Sarager.

I'm thrilled to be sharing some tips about goal writing.

I am somewhat of an expert.

At BYU I look classes on goal writing.

As a Special Ed Teacher, I used to get paid to write goals.

I guess that makes me a professional goal setter.

First thing's first.

I LOVE this quote.

When performance is measured, performance improves.

When performance is
measured and reported back,

the rate of improvement accelerates.

T. S.
Monson

So, with the end goal of accelerated performance in mind,

I share with you some practical goal writing tips:

1. Make your goal measurable!

Have a clear defined way to see progress.

2. State your goal in a positive manner!

If possible, make a goal for what you will do, not what you won't do.

3. Use benchmarks!

Break big goals down into smaller, more attainable goals.

4. Lastly, find a way to report your performance.

Whether it be to a friend, here, or just in your journal--

be sure you are accountable for your goals.

I promise, you will see TONS of progress this way!

If you have questions about how to tweak or write your goals

I will try to help in the comments.

OR hare your goals--maybe someone will be inspired.

And come visit at House of Sarager!

Thanks all.

Happy New Year!

A New Year guest post by Cherie

2012-01-07T06:48:00.000-08:00

Anyone who knows anything about Cherie is quite sure to say the same thing--the girl is experienced and genuine. I really think she can do just about anything - plus, she's just funny! I love her "real" take on the New Year and I know you will too!

The Joy of New Year's Resolutions

"Every day is a new beginning. Treat it that way. Stay away from what might have been, and look at what can be." Author unknown

Your life is as positive as you make it.

Ask your self this question: Are you a person who pats yourself on the back for those things that you accomplish, or do you constantly kick yourself for what you fail to do? If you said, "yes" to the latter it is time to re-adjust your thinking. You are being too hard on yourself.

In the grand scheme of things life is one big goal, broken down into a series of smaller goals, and after that even smaller goals, etc...related to this, is the fact that everything in life has a repetitive nature. To learn, we must do things over and over and over and over. It is rare or even unheard of to master something on the first try, or even the tenth. So why do we beat ourselves up when it comes to New Year's resolutions?

Every year I make goals. I love the beginning of a new year. I list and plan and write everything down that I want to accomplish. Will I accomplish it all this year? Probably not. Will I accomplish some of it this year? Maybe. Will I look at each thing I write down and try to do a little better at each one? YES!

When you look at someone who is really good at something - a sport, an instrument, a fantastic figure, a writer, a whiz at food storage, a scriptorian. They were not born with that skill. It didn't happen in a year - It took years and years of work and goals to get to where they are.

This is the whole point. I may not accomplish my goals this year, but I will try. Every year I will keep on trying and I will get a little better at each thing, and each year I will do the same thing, with my goals, until finally, I will check off this goal or that one and I will be good at it because I have practiced it for so long. To me that is a victory!

So quit being hard on yourself, don't be afraid to set goals and work toward them. Because whether you achieve them this year, or ten years from now, you are awesome simply for working on something that will make you a better person. It is never, ever too late to try something new.

"I urge you to examine your life. Determine where you are and what you need to do to be the kind of person you want to be. Create inspiring, noble, and righteous goals that fire your imagination and create excitement in your heart. And then keep your eye on them. Work consistently towards achieving them."

--Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin, "Life's Lessons Learned", May 2007 Ensign

A New Year guest post by Jocelyn

2012-01-06T06:14:00.000-08:00

Jocelyn is such a great example to me in just about every form. She's the kind of girl who does exactly what she sets out to do-and somehow makes everything fun in the process. She also lives in my old stomping grounds in Pennsylvania so I have quite the soft spot for her... Here's hoping she'll send me a tastycake;)

Some people do great with yearly goals.

Others just take it one day at a time.

But I have found that I am most productive when I take life on in 30 day increments.

This Ted Talk by Matt Cutts called "Try Something New for 30 Days" explains it very well: Most people can try anything for 30 days. Doing something for 30 days sort of makes you an "expert" in something fairly quickly. And if you don't like something, you don't have to waste a whole year figuring it out.

Here are some examples of personal goals that I have taken on in 30 day portions:

One month, my kids and I served someone once a day for 30 Days straight.

I also taught my children about what we believe about families every day for 30 days.

Last year, I spent 30 days writing letters thanking people who have mentored me in my life.

I also read the entire Book of Mormon in 30 Days, and gave away 30 copies of The Book of Mormon in 30 Days.

I even spent 30 days in May of last year doing only things that I like doing for a change. I called it The Month of Me, and it was very enjoyable and rejuvenating!

Of course, you can also subtract things from your life for 30 days and see how it goes, like the time that I gave up knuckle cracking for an entire month while I lived abroad. My mom told me that it was too gross a habit to inflict on my host family. So, I struggled every night to keep from cracking my knuckles. (I shared a room with my host-sister!) At the end of the 30 days, I was habit-free, but I had a lot of pent-up emotions!

So how about it? Are you ready to try something new for 30 days?

Do you have a goal that seems too hard or that you have already failed at pri? Or just want to try something different?

Give it a whirl for 30 days and let me know how you do! You might just find that you can do just about anything for 30 days!

A New Year guest post by Christina

2012-01-05T06:14:00.000-08:00

Bee a Little Better is one of my favorite blogs because of it's lovely uplifting nature. Christina is full of ways to improve oneself and appreciate the journey along the way. I love her outlook on life and I'm excited that she was willing to share her thoughts on how she hopes to approach this New Year.

picture from our trip to NYC last year, a city filled with possibilities

Happy New Year! I am a goal-setter/list-maker/dreamer by nature, so a new year ranks right up there with Christmas to me as far as excitement levels go. The best thing about a new year? Possibilities! Although we have infinite opportunities available any day of the year, a fresh calendar and new year seems to signify a blank slate and the true wealth of possibilities that are available.

As I've been thinking about resolutions over the past week or two I've changed my approach for this year. Usually I'm quick with a to-do list of the things I'm hoping to accomplish that I can check off easily. Things that are easily measurable are definitely fulfilling and in the past for me have included things like entertain monthly or write letters weekly or exercise 5 times a week. Although I do think successful goals are most often measurable goals, this year I've been thinking about how I want this year to feel instead of what I'm hoping to accomplish.

I want to feel an increase of love. I want to feel less frantic. I want to feel more thoughtful about my choices. The realization that it is possible for me to feel like those things this year makes me giddy at the thought of it! I'm still hammering out how I'm going to achieve these feelings, but I'm really enjoying the process of pondering what I want to become and what I want to feel instead of rattling off a dozen things I hope to do in the new year and calling it a day.

My challenge to you at the start of this year is to take time to really think about what you want to be-how you want to feel at the end of each day-instead of just what you hope to accomplish. I think the following quote sums it up quite nicely:

Your possibilities are immense. Trust the Lord to lead you from what you are to what you have the power to become.

-Neal A. Maxwell

A New Year guest post by Ashley

2012-01-04T05:38:00.000-08:00

I'm excited to introduce the lovely Ashley! This girl is not only a total babe with eyelashes that I am entirely jealous of, but she is also completely down-to-earth and radiates happiness. You can see the love she has for her family and life in every post she writes and it is such a happy space in blog-land to sit and read.

Hello beautiful readers! I am Ashley from Hudson's Happenings, and I am so happy that sweet Carrie asked me to share a guest post on her lovely blog.

It's that time again.....a new year is upon us and it's customary to make that list of goals that we will strive to achieve in 2012. This year, instead of creating concrete resolutions, I am going to try to achieve one important thing:

In 2012, I resolve to LIVE in the moment.

As a mother to a very precious little boy, it seems that I am always looking ahead. I find myself planning all the time, whether it's next week's menu or where he'll attend school in a couple of years. I've been known to spend a bit too much time worrying about the future. And, I am constantly organizing things, planning ahead and working hard to be sure that our household runs smoothly.....which is definitely important, but in 2012 I want to put more of an emphasis on truly enjoying life's little moments.

I can't wait to do more:

dancing in my pajamas

exploring the great outdoors

building pillow forts

baking cookies

playing the piano

and reading lots of books

with my sweet boy.

I can't wait to have more fun.

What is your New Year's Resolution?

A New Year guest post by Chocolate on my Cranium

2012-01-03T00:14:00.000-08:00

My first guest post is by the lovely lady Cocoa on Chocolate on my Cranium. She is the mother of NINE children--and well, she's just got her stuff together (there is no other way to put it). Her optimism astounds me and her blog is filled with both spiritual and practical ideas. And she obviously likes chocolate. What better person could I have to ring in the New Year?

Eucharisteo

For the last few months I have been on a personal journey. I've realized this is the only real 'goal' I want to carry forward going into the new year. Not because I don't want to accomplish other things or better myself --but because this one thing has the power and capacity to be the catalyst for everything else. I have already seen it beginning to change me. It feels good! And I want more.

{early morning light in my daughter's bedroom}

Giving thanks, thanksgiving, eucharisteo*.

{Colors to brighten - a picture, a desk, a mother's face}

President Henry B. Eyring has been keeping a gratitude journal for years. He would write a few lines every single night. Of this experience he shared, "Before I would write, I would ponder this question: “Have I seen the hand of God reaching out to touch us or our children or our family today?” As I kept at it, something began to happen. As I would cast my mind over the day, I would see evidence of what God had done for one of us that I had not recognized in the busy moments of the day. As that happened, and it happened often, I realized that trying to remember had allowed God to show me what He had done.

More than gratitude began to grow in my heart. Testimony grew. I became ever more certain that our Heavenly Father hears and answers prayers. I felt more gratitude for the softening and refining that come because of the Atonement of the Savior Jesus Christ. And I grew more confident that the Holy Ghost can bring all things to our remembrance—even things we did not notice or pay attention to when they happened."

{Bubbles on soft baby lips}

This one question “Have I seen the hand of God reaching out to touch us or our children or our family today?” is powerful. The answers even more so.

{Housework is no longer a drudgery but a way to bless my family}

Giving thanks, counting my blessings, has changed my perspective, my focus. I no longer look inward. My eyes are drawn outward, upward to God. In that drawing I am able to see the needs of others around me. In my limited realm of experience I have learned that in giving thanks I want to give. How can I not when I see how much I have truly been blessed? It is a natural God-intended consequence.

Giving thanks, thanksgiving, eucharisteo*. It is changing my life.

P.S. I will be chronicling some of my daily gifts through pictures on my photography blog, Montserrat Photography. Come, feast with me.

*Ann Voskamp writes, in One Thousand Gifts, Dare to Live Fully Right Where You Are,

"The root word of eucharisteo is charis, meaning "grace." Jesus took the bread and saw it as grace and gave thanks. He took the bread and knew it to be a gift and gave thanks.

But there is more, and I read it. Eucharisteo, thanksgiving, envelopes the Greek word for grace, charis. But it also holds its derivative, the Greek word chara, meaning "joy." Joy. Ah...yes. I might be needing me some of that. That might be what the quest for more is all about--that which Augustine claimed, "Without exception...all try their hardest to reach the same goal, that is joy."

A New Year

2012-01-01T23:34:00.000-08:00

It's 2012.  I really can't believe it.  I think the actual date struck me the most when I looked at all my vintage household items circa the 1960's-70's and realized they may no longer be considered vintage--but instead antique.  Gasp.

I am feeling good this year (albeit it is only DAY ONE) and to get my readers excited for the New Year I have set up a series of posts by some awesome guest bloggers this week.  I know you will love them and that they will inspire you! 

I have a lot of hopes and dreams and wishes for this year and I really believe with some hard work (and perhaps a few prayers) I can make them all come true. 

So let's ring in the New Year together, shall we?

It's gonna be a good year.

PS. Since I got hitched in the year 2000 I will never forget how many years I have been married. I was so smart.

personalized art...a great gift!

2011-12-30T06:13:00.000-08:00

I try to give at least one meaningful gift to Rowdy each Christmas and this year I decided to give some personalized artwork.  I guess it's for the both of us--don't you love it when that happens?  I had been searching for some way to display all the places we have lived since we met and I finally found the perfect solution at THIS Etsy shop.  Brooke (the seller) did such an awesome job customizing each one for me and her communication was great (even with the holiday rush!) I just adored how the locations were connected together with a heart.

Don't you love the Seattle to Tallahassee and back to Seattle again? We are such traveling Gypsy's.  

And I couldn't just stop there so I had one made for my SIL as a wedding gift

and for my BFF since they have lived world wide.

Bittersweet

2011-12-29T10:04:00.000-08:00

I saw this last night and smiled somberly as tears ran down my face.  This boy was/is such an inspiration.  He passed away on Christmas day and made this video a week before his death--his family found it after he was gone.  There's just something about his smile...   

And Amy wrote a beautiful post today on her daughter's birthday.  Sweet baby Ella is her angel in heaven...and her words and thoughts on the love she has for her daughter are beautiful and raw and I am a better person for having read them. 

How I feel today

2011-12-27T07:25:00.000-08:00

The word "optimistic" has been on my mind lately. Mainly, I think, because it doesn't even slightly represent me. I am far far far away from such a word. But since Christmas has come and gone and a New Year approaches I think I want that word to be close close close instead.

I think that this is the year that we will see tremendous growth and change and I pray that optimism will surround it all. 2011 has brought consistency with it--same old stuff--grad school and work have taken so much of our time. But since Rowdy is finished with his Master's program we have closed an old chapter and a new one has begun. In fact, I think I would like to put the old book down all together and head to the Life Library for a bright and shiny new fresh-off-the-press one instead.

I am going to get on my knees until I can feel it. Until I can dream it. Until I can BE it--optimistic. It's not such an unrealistic thought, you know. That "pessimistic me" could change for the better. I think I just will.

***

PS* My best friend Mary is flying me to Hong Kong to see her in a few months. Uhmm...best Christmas gift EVER?????

Build-A-Fort Kit

2011-12-26T07:46:00.000-08:00

I decided to make a fort kit for my nephew and I was surprised how big of a hit it was!

(I know--I shouldn't be surprised, right?)

I meant to take a picture of all the stuff inside, but basically I found 2 sheets at a thrift store and sewed loops on all corners using fabric from an old t-shirt via instructions found here, added rope-suction cups-clips and a flashlight to a pillowcase/turned bag, and then made a cute tag with the description.

It kept the kids occupied for hours. Plus it's portable so it can go anywhere. They used it at the hotel room, outside, and I especially loved this little set-up at Grandma's house via the Christmas tree!

Christmas Card 2011

2011-12-23T13:25:00.000-08:00

Merry Christmas!!!

Lov'n the things I am seeing and hearing

2011-12-22T06:55:00.000-08:00

1. So there I was checking out one of my favorite blogs Creature Comforts for some holiday inspiration when I spotted my gift wrapping on not one but two of her posts! Thrilled to be a part of such awesome ideas. Her blog rocks and you should definitely have it on your blog list.

Check out item #8

and

Here for item# 11

2. When we were in GA Kai wanted to throw a penny into a fountain. I told him to make a wish and so he threw it in and then said, "My wish already happened. I wished that all my family could be together forever."
No joke. I totally teared up right then a there.

3. Last night I was given my Christmas present early. Rowdy has been working on something for the last month and lately it has been covered with a huge blanket in our living room. Finally I was allowed to walk in to see it uncovered and Christmas music filled my ears. He had found a vintage 1960's RCA Victrola record player cabinet and tweaked the wiring so it would work again. It's in great condition and he bought it from the original owners. Holy manna from heaven I can't wait to take a picture and show you!

4. Yesterday I received a box in the mail from my high school friend in PA and it was filled with boxes of butterscotch krimpets tastycakes. You can't get them here and it was pretty much the best box of goodies I have received ever.

5. THIS video is beautiful.

Christmas Vacation in Georgia

2011-12-22T03:11:00.000-08:00

All of Rowdy's siblings came home for the holidays.  I was sick for most of the week, Rowdy spent every day working on his thesis for grad school so we never saw him (done! he's graduated!), and there was some family drama for sure, but I love these pictures because they help me remember good moments and I am grateful for them.  I love my in-laws.  Also, the Strouds sure can make cute babies.

 ugly sweater contest

Jacie and David WON!

David with one of his twin girls and our new nephew Conner

little miss 9 month old Ellie already walking!

Don't let these two smiles fool you-- these cousins would not stop fighting for even a minute.

Although I do not condone alcohol--this was too funny!

Family Pictures

2011-12-21T12:28:00.000-08:00

For the first time since Brianna was a baby--this photographer Mama had some family pictures taken.

It's really hard to be kind to myself on the other side of the lens, but my family is beautiful and so I know that having these are important regardless of how I feel about myself.

(It was windy so we had some Brianna hair issues that she is not too happy about;)

*pics taken by the oh-so-talented Ritchie White.

brown paper packages and then some

2011-12-12T11:50:00.000-08:00

I'm heading out on vacation tomorrow and so I leave you with some of my Christmas wrapping.  I'm still into the brown paper this year, but I added some wool felt, pretty shiny paper and a couple gaudy glittered leaves and pearls from the floral department.  Me thinks it's pretty. 

PS. I love hot glue.

Friday and a Family Newsletter

2011-12-09T14:06:00.000-08:00

Do you write a newsletter every year? I have a hard time keeping a straight face when I read some of them, so I try to break up the formality when I send mine out. I'd like to think that a person can update a yearly status without bragging, maybe? I loved this post from Evelyn on the subject last year.
(PS...I really DO love reading all cards/newsletters and think they are so great so don't let this sway you from sending one my way!)

Last year Brianna wrote ours--pretty cute--and then this year I had the kids do a Q/A. Everything written is EXACTLY how it was said. Picture cartoons on, me at the computer typing/yelling out the questions and then the kids answering back.

***

Dearest Friends and Family,

What better way to tell you about our life this past year than through the mouths of our babes?

Disclaimer: No children were harmed during the recording of this transcript.

What did Daddy just finish this month?

Kai: Homework.

Brianna: Daddy finished his Masters Degree in Organizational Psychology/Development. Boy, am I glad that is over.

What does Mommy do every day?

Kai: Office work.

Brianna: You work in your office and do photos.

What does Brianna do in 4^th grade?

Kai: She makes songs and goes to recess.

Brianna: We have different routines every single day; Math, Science, Art, Reading, Library, Social Studies, Health, Language, and Geometry.

What does Kai do in Kindergarten?

Kai: I go to recess and do reading groups. That’s all.

Brianna: I think he learns the alphabet and how to write letters correctly and sounding words out.

What’s our favorite thing to do together as a family?

Kai: Hug and share candy.

Brianna: We love to hang out and cook.

How old is everyone?

Kai: Daddy is 39, Mommy is 49, Brianna just turned 10 and had a super tall gigantic cake, and I am going to be 6 on December 16^th! It is going to be a zombie one.

Brianna: No! Dad is 33 and Mom is 30. And I had the best birthday ever. Mom won’t let you have a zombie one.

Did anything new happen this year?

Kai: On the next day when I went to school I was doing the snail race.

Brianna: Oh! We got 2 geckos and we named them Tang and Kiwi. But our other geckos died because they were sick and I will never forget them for the rest of my life. And I just auditioned and got into the Seattle Childrens Chorus, so that is totally awesome.

What do you want to tell everyone?

Kai: I wish everybody could have lasers. And I want more Transformers.

Brianna: No, Kai...she’s not talking about that!

Why don’t you say something about Christmas….?
Kai: Merry Christmas? Do you mean go to the North Pole where Santa lives? I want to go there.

Brianna: I wish everyone a safe and happy holiday!

We are so grateful for our many blessings and hope this year brings you laughter and joy.

***

Christmas Decorating

2011-12-08T11:10:00.000-08:00

Every year after the holidays I hit the sales rack for any cheap Christmas decor.  And then every year when I get all my Christmas decorations out I find the new items packed away in the bins and it's like CHRISTMAS opening them.  You should have heard me...I was like, "Aaron!  Look at what I bought last year for way cheap that I get to display for the first time! It's so stink'n cute!" 

So here are a couple new things.  I would get more pictures but my place is a cave and nothing good turns out inside.  Note to self--next location better have floor to ceiling windows for natural light. 

Dear Santa-- you look fab. 

Hello, cute snowman!

Not new-- but my tree makes me happy every year.  The kids love decorating it so the ornaments are all over the place.  Symbol of our life right now and I love that.

Here is some decorating from last year and I have a similar set-up.

And uhm...want to know an embarrassing tidbit?  I got all psycho this year.  I was in a bad mood putting the stuff up because I couldn't find the dang lights anywhere.  It is a huge ordeal getting decorations out every year--I have to drive to the storage locker (30 min away) and then get them all out, load them into the car, load them out of the car, take them inside, etc (and these bins are HEAVY). 

Then this year I did something weird and I bought the tree without my husband.  I knew it had to be Saturday night, and that there would be no other time for me to decorate, so it was going to happen no matter what.  He couldn't get away from school-related stuff, so I asked if he would care if I just got it myself.  He didn't under the stressful circumstances--and you know what?  I didn't either.  I want it to go back to normal as a family event next year--but sometimes a girl has got to do what a girl has got to do.  I went to the Christmas tree lot--picked it out--loaded it up and then set it up myself.  I was ready to break open the boxes--and then--lights--where were the lights????  Did I mention going to the Wal-Mart near us at 10:30pm is never a happy experience?

So anyway- it's done, but it was sadly not a positive experience.  Thankfully, I have the rest of the month to gaze upon the prettiness, forget my behavior, and sing jingle bells until my throat hurts.

That's what the season is all about, no?  

***

PS! Thank you Amy for saying such sweet things about me on your blog!

Man-Wrapped

2011-12-07T11:24:00.000-08:00

Rowdy said he had wrapped some presents for me and they were already under the tree. Then he said we didn't have any wrapping paper so we should get some, "but don't worry, I found some craft paper and electrical tape. I man-wrapped it."

December and Christmas Traditions

2011-12-06T13:28:00.000-08:00

We are planning on making a list tonight of what we want to do this month and I am looking for ideas.  I think a lot of the Christmas fun will be with family when we head to GA next week, but we also have our own and I am trying to come up with some more to do in our very little time.  

Some of our traditions:

-Every Christmas Eve we take treats to the Fire Department since they are away from their family.

-Christmas lights drive by

-Cinnamon rolls or Quiche on Christmas Morning

-Cheese and crackers on Christmas Eve (you know those boxes from Hickory Farms?) 

-Delivering cookies to friends.  My favorites are homemade peppermint marshmallows, fudge, caramel corn, and the perfect sugar cookies.  I also love giving homemade granola--it's a nice healthy break in the midst of so many sweets. 

-Some type of service project/Secret Santa

-I try to come up with the best Christmas present wrapping in the family...haha!. (My guest post last year on my bows is found here)

-Every holiday movie we can think of watching

What are yours?

***

PS. Rowdy is DONE with his Master's Program in 1 week! Can I get a MERRY CHRISTMAS? In the meantime--life has been crazy busy hard and I know he is so tired. So, prayers that he has the willpower and energy to finish it up with a bang;)

wanting, peace, and why don't I?

2011-12-02T15:06:00.000-08:00

(that camera date is wrong-should be 12-25-2005)

Kai was born on December 16th but was due on the 25th.  Both myself and my doctor decided that being pregnant on Christmas Day was not an option...so he offered to induce me if I wanted.  However, I would only go natural and I had hoped that my body would want to be done baking a baby earlier than later. Thankfully, naturally, he came early and although we had some rough NICU days for no explained reason after--not because he was early, Christmas at our house was SO joyful.  I remember the peace....SUCH peace...a newborn in the house and a 4 year old opening gifts like it was the best day on earth was such a happy experience.  And I think it was because of that new baby sweetness.  I will always remember that Christmas the most I think, because of that peace we felt as his sweet spirit in his tiny earthly body had just arrived.  

As many posts on my blog this year have shown, a baby has been on my mind.  In fact, I had a dream last night that left me wanting.  I flip back and forth from wondering if my body will allow a pregnancy to happen, if I will be as sick and if it will be as hard as the last two, if I can remember how to function without sleep, if I could do a natural childbirth again, if there would be too big a gap in age so I should forget about it, if I could function in a pregnancy while doing my job, if my husband could handle my hormones, if I could be a good mother to another spirit who came into my home, if it is time if it is time if it is time, etc.   So many questions and not enough answers.

Then I read a post this week on A Blog About Love where she asked the question, "why have kids?"  Her thoughts were so profound because as she explained all the selfish reasons most people do it, and how she instead wants to have UN-selfish ones, I thought...WOW!  I need to start realigning my focus here.

Instead of craving that peace in my home at Christmas-time that a newborn baby brings, why don't I concentrate on MAKING my home that way to begin with?  Why don't I concentrate on being the kind of Mother worthy of having children in the first place?  Why don't I concentrate on THEM rather than ME and all my faults and worries and the what if's and timing and future obstacles? 

Makes so much more sense, doesn't it? I don't think I have had my thoughts where they should be and I am glad to have been pushed towards remembering that. So! Say goodbye to the "what if's!"  A new Mama is in town. 

November Adieu

2011-11-30T17:51:00.000-08:00

Pretty orchard in Provo, Utah

Since December 1st is tomorrow, I thought I would bid November adieu with a picture of the last falling leaves. I'm feeling the change in the air. I don't think it is as much the weather as it is the feeling of giving myself permission to celebrate a new holiday. It's as though listening to Christmas music and drinking Peppermint Hot Chocolate is okay now, and not only that, it is something to look forward to.

I  promised the kiddos that if we cleaned up every room this week then we could get the Christmas decorations out.  I still have some unpacking to do and I am embarrassed at my bathrooms since we have returned--so a deep clean is a must before I unveil the sparkle.  It will be our first Christmas in this apartment, so figuring out an arrangement of the tree and stockings will be fun, I think.

I'm also desperately excited to head to Georgia in a few weeks. The entire Stroud clan will be there with some new family members since our last gathering and we have such fun planned. I got a little preview of the bunch when we saw my new nieces for Thanksgiving in Utah and I am in full giggle-mode at the idea of smothering their cheeks in kisses again.

Christmas cards are mailed out (wahoo!) and I am in full Christmas making/shopping mode. I am going to be kinder to myself this year and not expect myself to do the crafts/activities that a SAHM would have time to do, and so I hope that what I can accomplish will be ever so appreciated, and ever so remembered.

Happy December, friends.

Dear Santa Clause,

2011-11-28T08:11:00.000-08:00

I would like to give you my christmas list….

World’s largest Gummy bear

Black boots

Earrings

A mood-ring

A dress for church (modest)

Bouncy ball maker

Webkinz rainbow zebra/white seal

Pet Trouble books

Song writing book

Lava Lamp

Girl treasure box with a key

Complete art set box (with paint)

Rising star microphone

Magic garden crystal lab

And for everybody to be safe during the winter and have a very good Christmas!

Love, Brianna

(not sure why she is hand-less here;)

****

She had me at world's largest gummy bear....

I'm back and a guest post on MMM

2011-11-27T21:14:00.000-08:00

I'm back!  It was an awesome trip and a wonderful way to spend Thanksgiving with family that I am SO thankful for.  And can you believe that we made it from Utah to Seattle in 11 hours (yes..going the speed limit)?  Another one of our many great talents. 

I'll be playing catch up this week.  And decorating for Christmas.  And editing the ginormous amount of photos that live in my hard drive.  And I am pretty darn happy about all of it because it means that life is normal and good.

Another fun treat since I got back was seeing my guest post up on Modern Mormon Men. I know...weird that I am a woman writing on a manly blog, right? Well, I have a lot to say a lot of the time, so apparently I needed another outlet. It's a great blog written by some amazing men--so even if you laugh completely at my post, keep this site in your reader.

I am thankful for them

2011-11-20T22:39:00.000-08:00

These past few weeks I have been working hard at being "present" with my children.  I have tried to be slower to anger...more aware of their needs...responsive to all requests (however annoying they may be)...even taking longer to tuck them in at night.  And as I reflect on what I am thankful for tonight...it is THEM.  Utterly and Entirely THEM.  They fill my heart with so much joy (and pain) and love (and worry) and I am so grateful to be their mother.  

Plus, aren't they knock-out beautiful?

***

We went Christmas-Card-Picture-Tak'n.  I was inspired with the idea this morning of what my card should look like and what it should say.  INSPIRED.  And I can't wait to send it out.  

We said a prayer in the car beforehand--and well--I think it worked!

Here are some teasers (although these won't be used on the card):

PS. This quilt is a family heirloom on Rowdy's side.

PPS. OVER and OUT for the week...we're headed to Utah.

Happy Thanksgiving!

What are YOU grateful for?

The forecast calls for rain

2011-11-20T00:50:00.000-08:00

So I will try to remember THIS moment I captured today.

PS.  Sadly, only a few people signed up to do the ornament exchange, so I don't think it is worth the time to organize.  Maybe I was too late getting the word out this year.  Bummer.  Unless I get an influx of emails quickly...better luck next time! 

Wish List

2011-11-18T11:00:00.000-08:00

i have been dreaming of  hot chocolate on a stick since last year.  how sweetly awesome!

these penguin classic books-- the covers are amazing.

a record player

loving this i love lucy dvd collection 

 i have been eyeing this holga camera for ages (with film please)

 my le creuset baking dishes that broke--oh how i miss you

and anything handmade, or thrifted, or that doesn't cost a cent

but mostly...i just wish for a happy holiday with my family...

and i think that's a given.

Utah and why not?

2011-11-16T09:57:00.000-08:00

This video is just as good as the first!

We're leaving for Utah in a week.  I need someone to feed my fish and watch my dog. Any takers? 

This idea that we are heading out on a road trip in just a few short days should freak me out a bit.  But the whole idea to go was just so...random...that I have decided to randomly not deal with the stress of getting there.

It all started when my friend (a bit jokingly) asked if I could come take photos of her family over Thanksgiving weekend since they would all be together.  I (a bit jokingly) said, "sure."   Then I said, "are you serious?"  Then she said, "are YOU serious?"  Then I said, "Ya...why not?"

The fact of the matter is that I am off work, and the kids are off school, and Rowdy can do his school work on the road, so WHY NOT?

The whole idea makes me giddy because people, we use to road-trip-it a lot.  One summer we went on like, 15 trips I think.  There was even a 4th of July weekend that we decided to drive down to Florida, camping on the side of the road, eating PB&J.  Surprisingly, as we made a stop at my SIL's house she gave us a 2 night hotel stay in Tampa that she had been given for work and it was to die for fun. I wasn't working and Brianna was still a toddler so we had the easy-mobility-thing going for us.  But as life has gone forward with less time and our family has grown, our trips have lessened drastically. 

And so maybe that is why a "Why Not?" is so appealing right now.  It certainly can't be the fact that it will be hours in the car going from Seattle to the Salt Lake Valley.  And it certainly can't be the fact that just getting out the door and wrapping up all responsibilities at home will be hectic, at the very least.  And it certainly can't be the fact that our Christmas in Georgia will happen so shortly after, so back-to-back trips are probably not the smartest thing in our responsibility-filled life.  But this trip is so necessary because we are just so...tired.  Tired from the monotony that job and grad school has entailed.  And tired from the same old same old. 

So yes, we will be in Utah for Thanksgiving and yes, I will be doing some photo sessions if you are interested and yes, it is going to be an exhausting and quick and random trip.

But hey... why not? 

Ornament Exchange 2011

2011-11-14T23:15:00.000-08:00

My ornament (lavender-rosemary sachet) that I made and mailed last year

I wrote about the Ornament Exchange so wonderfully last year that I decided to copy my post. I am SO original, I know;) But why try to recreate a good thing? It was an AMAZING turn-out with participation last year. I'm talking 50+girls. Let's do it again, shall we?

***

Ornaments mean something so special to me. Each one I add to my tree represents a time in my life, a Christmas, that is worth remembering. Aren't they all? Even that one holiday season when Rowdy was first diagnosed with his kidney disorder. His mother bought him an ornament at Emory Hospital while she stayed there with him when I couldn't. We hang that ornament up with fondness every year. Funny how that works?

Ornament exchanges are delightful because each person has their own personal touch. And that spreads warmth and a connection that only a darling pipe cleaner angel on a tree can express.

So begins my own! I would like to organize one now so that everyone involved will have a time of preparation. Ornaments can be either made or bought. However, they must be symbolic of YOU, or at least given with a heartfelt message that you would like to express.

Once everyone has signed up, I will assign a name for you to send your ornament(s) to. You will then receive one (or more if you optioned as such) in return. Deadline for each woman to receive hers is December 15th.

Deadline to sign up is November 21st. Once you commit, please follow through;) Email me at carriestroud@gmail.com!

In your email to me please include:

-The # of ornaments you would like to make/receive...either 1 or 6

-Your address

-If you blogged about it so you can receive a bonus ornament from me!

Blonde Boy and Bandaids

2011-11-13T22:54:00.000-08:00

My photo hard drive is about to go on overload so I did some cleaning out.  I came upon these pictures of Kai taken a few years ago and my heart just melted. 

My baby boy... not so baby anymore but still oh-so-adorable.

Can you get over how blonde his hair is in these photos? Ahhhh...Florida sun...

Okay-- the funniest video ever

2011-11-11T11:18:00.000-08:00

I put this on my facebook but I can't even handle NOT giving all my readers (who are not my facebook friends...what's up with that?) a chance to see this funny video.  I have watched this so many times--and tears keep falling.  Happy Weekend!  

go HERE

And the winner of Brianna's CD has been picked in the post below!

Brianna's CD Giveaway Winner

2011-11-11T10:13:00.000-08:00

Congrats, Regina!  Looks like you will be the coolest, after all!

Three Thursday Things

2011-11-10T10:25:00.000-08:00

1. I'm giving away a photo session on Stephanie's blog if you are in the Seattle area and care to enter. It could even work if you know someone that lives here to give it to--talk about a sweet Christmas gift! I just did an engagement session that I am in love with so I'm definitely in a giving mood;)

2. Speaking of giveaways, if you haven't already commented to win Brianna's Top 10 CD here then you are just ca-razy. It would be the perfect stocking stuffer for that person you never have any idea what to give. PS- she has an audition today with the Seattle Childrens Chorus so send some good vibes, k?

3. Is anyone interested in doing an ornament exchange again this year? It was pretty awesome last year-- so let me know and I'll set up the details again!

Happy Thursday!

A video+giveaway that you won't want to miss

2011-11-09T02:36:00.000-08:00

There are a zillion things that I could say "ew" to about myself in this video, but I'm going to choose to look past them all--

like the lip smacking and "uhm" and what is with my hair? and my unforgettable looks (like you want to forget them but can't, you know?) and did I mention the lovely orange hue referencing nighttime photography?

--and instead get down to the real message:

Please leave a comment and you will be entered to win the

TOTALLY AWESOME

BRIANNA'S 10 FAVORITE SONGS 

CD

 It is worth every typed letter on your keyboard, I promise.

TTYL.

PS.  The cd has the actual artist songs on it.  Brianna is just singing a sampling of what they are.

PPS.  Didn't mention in the video that the randomly referenced "skater boy" Scott Heff is married to my friend Aimee, lest you be in wonder of his origin;)

A wallet lost

2011-11-08T10:50:00.000-08:00

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Yesterday Rowdy realized that he had lost his wallet. It was last seen on Saturday but not discovered missing until Monday when he of course, needed it. The last day and a half have been spent turning over the entire apartment and car in search of it. Initially I said a personal prayer to help us find it (I am sure he did as well) and then a few hours later I felt prompted to pray again with him. And we still didn't find it. I went to bed last night completely surprised at the fact that God had not helped us find it. I mean, He always has before. I have ALWAYS found what was missing before-even hours later. And I have ALWAYS believed that it was because I prayed about it. So what's the deal?

This is a tough one. His wallet has everything (what wallet doesn't?) and as though life isn't stressful enough with the end of Grad School and HUGE projects that he has been working on...we can't find a very important and necessary piece to our day to day life. Driving, banking, identifying--you name it. Lost.

So I guess in my writing this I am hoping to 1) get some good finding vibes out there and 2) plea again to the heavens for some help. And perhaps have some faith restored. It's not gone--my faith--but I am certainly surprised that it hasn't been enough.

A 10th Birthday Party For My Girl

2011-11-06T11:05:00.000-08:00

I am not a big fan of the mainstream birthday themes, so it was with great hope that I asked Brianna early this year if we could something different instead. How about the theme TEN?! After I told her my idea--making it about her 10 favorite things she was all on board, and it turned out really really sweet.

First off, not only was it outside in SEATTLE in NOVEMBER, but it DID NOT RAIN, and IT WAS SUNNY! There was a definite chill in the air, but Mother Nature was smiling down on this one.

The table was really simple to include 10 of her favorite snacks:

carrot sticks w/ ranch dressing

Hawaiian chips

jalapeno cheetos

apples with caramel dip

gummy bears

oreos

licorice

oranges

water (we forgot the hot chocolate...whoops.)

a TEN layer cake

Let's talk about the cake, shall we? It was a pretty easy project in my head. I found an actual 10 layer cake recipe, thinking not only could I pull it off but that I would make the cake batter from scratch too--and let's color it purple while we are at it!

2 attempts later at 10:30pm I returned from the store with butter yellow cake mixes and more eggs.

I made my famous homemade fudgy frosting, but I would like to officially announce that there is no shame in buying cake mixes, okay?

Some sweet advice: Get disposal aluminum cake pans to make the baking process go faster. Originally the idea was to make 10 really thin layers and bake them individually, but instead I made 6 normal 8 inch cakes and then sliced each layer in 2 (I had 2 extra layers for back-up, which I used btw;)

My glass cake stand looked really plain so I made some tiny bunting with paper triangles and ribbon. I hot glued it to the cake stand because hot glue is awesome and just peels right off. And the tablecloth is a vintage sheet that I happened to find in my stash right beforehand.

I think skinny candles are so pretty! And the girl blowing them out, too!

I made some number labels to put on all the food as some simple yet fun decor. My printer broke so I had to free hand these babies--don't judge.

I covered the water bottles with some paper because well... it just looked cuter.

These fringe streamers kept me up way too late to admit.

One of the activities was to make Origami!

A wonderful woman from church is an expert and instructed the girls on making Brianna's favorite -- a butterfly.

My FAVORITE thing. I blew up a huge picture of Brianna ($4 at Kinko's) and then made paper

party hats to play "Pin the Hat on the Birthday Girl."

The take-home bags were really fun! We gave each girl a bag of her 10 favorite things:

fingernail polish

sprite

scented hand sanitizer

tattoos

hot chocolate packet

candle

hubba bubba bubble gum

rolos

lavender sachet (we picked and dried the lavender and I sewed them)

cd of her 10 favorite songs (she illustrated the cover)

I started to clean up a bit and then had to run over to snap this picture. The girls had made wishes and then sent the balloons off!

Verdict:

A Perfect 10

This post is sponsored by my friend Jen with our actual text message:
Me: Done!
Jen: Can't wait to see pictures. I expect to see them edited and posted by the end of the night;)

2 Days

2011-11-03T00:17:00.000-07:00

 Do you see Mt. Rainier in the distance?  It is breathtaking.

In the next 2 days I have to:

-Get a root canal

-Complete 1 weeks worth of office work that I am behind in

-Edit 4 photo sessions + finish up a wedding

-Photograph an engagement session

-Bake a 10 layer cake

-Make all party decorations for Brianna's birthday

-Execute birthday party with 10 year old screaming girls 

-Attend 2 soccer practices (swapping with Rowdy since they are at the same time)

 -Attend 2 soccer games 

-Clean up my house, make dinner, and do laundry in between

I don't know how I am going to do it.  I really don't.   

Costume Contest!

2011-11-02T10:00:00.000-07:00

 
The hard part about the beginning of November is that I feel bad for still mentioning Halloween.  Like I can't put a costume picture up  the day after because uhm...it'd done and gone already.  But when else would I show  the costumes?  Do I only have until midnight before I fly over the  moon? 

No-no, I say.  Let's keep this party going and let your costume awesomeness prevail.

 Every  All Hallows Eve after the trick-or-treating is done we return home to assess the goods.  We make it a point to only go to the very best neighborhoods = the very best candy and so the loot is mighty fine.  But there are some stragglers for sure....the candy that is less than desirable and will most certainly end up uneaten because well, it's just gross.

So I thought, how awesome would it be to find a good home for all our unwanted Halloween candy.  After all, one man's trash is another man's treasure!

Enter the Online Costume Contest! 

So! Send in your best costume pictures or a link to a blog post from Halloween and you will be judged by us (as in me and whoever is in the same room at the time).  Deadline for entry is Friday November 4th.  Your prize will be our unwanted bag of candy plus the knowledge that well... you WON!  Wahoo!  Send your submission to carriestroud{at}gmail{dot}com.  The winner will be announced on Monday.

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PS. I have not taken my Halloween decorations down yet and I probably won't for awhile.  I didn't put them up until mid-October so I think they deserve to hang out for awhile.  Plus I have about 8 loads of clean laundry piled up who I think get dibs on being put away first.  

PPS. Check out some amazing homemade Halloween costumes here.  This is my old Seminary Teacher Sister Mitchell and her daughter Rachel  who I went to high school with (albeit she was/is a few years  younger).  Both of their creativity does not surprise me one bit.

A Spell-Filled Night

2011-11-01T01:13:00.000-07:00

A Halloween Tale

2011-10-31T01:56:00.000-07:00

(taken a few All Hallows Eve's ago)

It was a dark and stormy night. The day started out beautiful with a blue sky with vibrant Autumn leaves dancing across the trees, but as Sunset approached so did the dark and dreary rain clouds. Kai and Brianna jumped as thunder clapped out loud, but off they scurried to get ready for bed regardless of the chill in the air. Their mother had not yet returned home from her errands and so it was up to them to remember how to do their nighttime routine with only help from Dad.

Before their Mom left she had reminded them of their chores. It was the usual nightly routine and so they just shook their head in acknowledgement as she headed out the door. They remembered hearing the words, "don't forget!" but were so busy playing their game that they shrugged off her voice. Once bedtime arrived they thought about their checklist and mentally crossed off their tasks knowing that they had it all under control.

Get into pajamas. Check. Brush teeth. Check. Read a story. Check. But as the thunder clapped loudly again the to-do list became a distraction and a story of the past.

The children jumped into bed as the wind howled against the window pain. Kai stumbled over his transformers and Brianna's crayons on the floor and landed with a thud onto his pillow. Cradling his stuffed monkey in his arms, Brianna sang the song that their Mother usually does. "Hush little baby, don't say a word...Mama's gonna buy you a mocking bird." After the words calmed their troubled hearts, Brianna's mind suddenly came to a stupor... "Hey Kai, did we forget to do something?" Kai couldn't think of anything so "no" was his answer. Brianna thought again..."Are you sure? I keep getting the feeling that we forgot to do something that Mom told us to do." But the thought passed quickly as Dad came in to say goodnight and turn off the lights, assuring them that their Mom would peek in when she returned home from her errands.

It was extra dark in their room. The nightlight batteries were low so the usual soft glow was just a flicker of light. The wind continued to howl and the rain pattered against the rooftop, but they were snug in their beds so any fear faded as a deep slumber came over each child. Their dreams were in sync with the soft rhythm of the rain and they succumbed to their tired eyes.

Hours later they suddenly heard a large clap which jolted them both awake. Was it a door opening? Was it a tree that had fallen in the yard? They couldn't tell, but whatever it was their sleep had been interrupted. The dark room no longer remained a safe abode, but rather a room that echoed every scary sound.

Thump. Thump. Thump.

The heavy rain pounding outside masked the obvious footprints in the hall. No lights were turned on and surely their parents wouldn't be wandering around in the dark. And it was so late that their Mother must have already returned and come in to kiss them goodnight while they were sleeping.

Kai called out to his sister in a whisper..."Brianna? Are you awake? What is that noise?"

Brianna quickly calmed her brother as she jumped down from the top bunk and snuggled under his covers with him. Her older sister instinct immediately kicked in at the sound of his nervous voice.

Thump.....thump....thump...

They didn't know who it could be and snuggled tighter.

The noise was getting closer. Soft at first and and then louder as it approached. Without warning the hallway light turned on and they could see the gleam underneath the door. But there was no sound. Hoping that whoever was causing the noise had left to another area of the house their breath became still. But suddenly they heard the doorknob wiggle.

Creeeeeeeeekkkkkkkk...

Whoever it was or WHATever it was began to appear as a shadow silhouette against the bright hallway light.

Then they saw the eyes.

The disappointed eyes and the shake of a head as it glanced at the floor in their room.

Fear struck with a vengeance and their nightmare rang loud and clear as Brianna remembered what thought had been troubling her. What they had forgotten. The one request that their Mother had asked them to do before she left that evening. The worst possible scenario that could be bestowed upon them this fearful night.

...they forgot to clean their room.

Utah and Photo Sessions

2011-10-30T22:14:00.000-07:00

Hey my peeps, not sure if I have mentioned this before but...drum roll please...I am a photographer. I know, I know....this must be a huge surprise for most of you, but I'm for realz. For proof I have a website right here.

Now that we have that breaking news out of the way, I am considering a trip to Utah to do some photo sessions over Thanksgiving Weekend (Friday and Saturday). I'll only make the trip if I have enough sessions to make the travel worth it so I hope it can work out. Please let me know if you or any of your family out West would be interested in a session with me!

Plus I was promised an awesome Thanksgiving dinner by one of my clients and I can't really pass up the chance to increase my pant size.

Wahoo for a road trip!

You can email me at carriestroud{at}gmail{dot}com

Fall Friday Feelings

2011-10-28T13:33:00.000-07:00

 (see this party here)

+I'm feeling crazy bad about the fact that Brianna broke her wrist at her soccer game on Saturday and I didn't take her to see the doctor until Wednesday.  She came out of the game bawling in pain and I told her to pull herself together and get out there and play.  Then she scored a goal.  And then every day she kept asking me to please set up an appointment with the DR and so I did and holy crap she has a fracture....SORRY!!!

+ I'm feeling so jealous of this girl--so much in fact that I had to click off her blog quick before I became green with witchy envy.  Her parties are insanely cute, she has a darling house in a lovely area of Seattle, she's a fantastic photographer, she's hot, and she lives 20 minutes from me so can you imagine my potential!?  Her Halloween Party was to die for darling (heehee) and she threw her son a Camping Party that is just about the cutest birthday party I have ever seen. And now I am going to get on my knees and pray that my heart will be softened and that my envy will cease and desist unless she wants to be my best friend and in that case we can totally hang out. 

+I'm feeling optimistic about things.  Graduate School is coming to a close in December and with that means change is in the air.  I'm not sure what our next step will be, but I am looking forward to it.  In fact, our goal board states, "Christmas Baby" and then underneath it says "20 Pounds" and Brianna was totally trying to figure out what that means.  Translation:  Figure out our goals for yourself. 

+I'm feeling curious about the fact that my husband has been so demanding that I get a passport. Like, yelled at me with serious pressure even. I got it today (well, I'll receive it in 6 weeks) so what then?  We'll see.  

+I'm feeling grateful for the little things.  Like my daughter's Halloween costume being a cinch to put together all from finds at goodwill in one night.  And that Kai's Batman Costume from last year still fits because it was and is still the bomb. Plus I have been reading this amazing blog about love..and it is truly wonderful and inspiring to read.  It makes me want to get rid of all my baggage and be a better wife with a better perspective on the sacredness of marriage because my husband deserves that. 

Happy Halloween Weekend, friends.

Kids+Pumpkins+Fall

2011-10-27T13:51:00.000-07:00

Cute kids, eh?

It's Here

2011-10-26T00:00:00.000-07:00

In autumn the falling leaves

Run races on the paths,

Tumble  head over heels

And catch against the tufts of grass.

I gather them in a heap

With a stiff brush and rake

Though they are light as feathers

And do their best to escape.

Then I splash right into the heap

And the leaves wash over me

With a long swishing sound

Like a wave of the sea.

~Stanley Cook

Nothings and Somethings

2011-10-25T09:48:00.000-07:00

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I felt like I needed to write something today, but as I pondered (do we actually say that word out loud?) about what to write my mind felt muddled.  And then I questioned if I needed to write anything at all.  Would my blog be fine if left it on my sarcastic post from yesterday?  Would my blog look strange on Friday with my last post stuck on Monday?  And then I came to terms with the fact that it would be fine if I didn't post.  Time doesn't stand still and life happens.  If I don't have anything witty or profound to say in this little corner of the virtual world for awhile--this blog will still stay intact.  In fact, I see it all the time.  There are some blogs I probably stalk religiously waiting for when they post again.  And when they do...oh! how joyous the day (I kid...a bit). I think it's the anticipation, you know?  So what exactly does that mean for me?  I think it means that it's okay if I don't write today.  If I don't have anything to say sometimes it's better to not say anything. 

And yet, I am reminded of the famous line from YOU GOT MAIL where Kathleen Kelly writes to Joe Fox:  "The odd thing about this form of communication is that you're more  likely to talk about nothing than something. But I just want to say that  all this nothing has meant more to me than so many somethings."

I don't know if that is the same perspective someone should have in blog-land.  If writing about random tidbits and having pointless posts equals something at all.  But my heart of hearts tells me it does.  Because all these random moments are my life.  They are my thoughts and sometimes my dreams and most assuredly my perspective on life.  

So here is to a lot of nothings to start the day out right.      

Have I got a gift guide for YOU!

2011-10-24T11:53:00.000-07:00

I have been seeing a lot of advertising on blogs lately. I get it--I do--if I had the opportunity to make a buck by simply posting I probably would. But since I don't have the "opportunity," I still want to give back to my readers by giving them ideas of what to buy for gifts this season without a discount instead of a substantial post that brings joy to your life.

Get your debit card ready!

There is a new Snuggie on the market with word prints! And if you don't believe how wonderful this product truly is, read the reviews here and see for yourself! I told you there would be no discounts on this post, but lo and behold there is a special going on right now that if you buy $50 worth you get free shipping. Now that's my kind of deal.

I discovered this wonderful trip to Antarctica recently and I thought to myself, "Now THAT would be a gift that everyone would love!" I am considering giving each member of Rowdy's family their own, because it is sure to be a hit and I don't want to play favorites. And at only $9,740 a person, I think it's a steal.

Still using that teapot that gets cold after 3 hours? Here is your answer! And oh my gosh-- there are 2 BONUS egg cosies as well. You better jump on this gift quick, because I am pretty sure there is a waiting list considering the time and detail that goes into each one.

And last but not least, if you are anticipating the arrival of Breaking Dawn Part I as I am, then this is the button for you!

So many good things to advertise...and well...I hope I helped you out with your gift shopping just a little. Too bad I don't actually get paid for this post. I'm pretty sure I'd make a couple cents off ya;)

I like me.

2011-10-21T06:23:00.000-07:00

There are a couple things about me that you should know:

1. I am horrible at keeping up with the laundry and

2. I am easily offended.  I try not to be.  I try to just brush it off, but in my job (as a property manager) I get a lot of complaints and a lot of personal attacks which are borderline harrassment and well, I just have to brush it off and keep on going.  I'm pretty good at the going part, it's the not caring what people say or think about me part that is hard.

So today--when this morning really couldn't get much worse regarding the above issue--I thought to myself that in this moment I need to remember my worth and who I am and who I am NOT.  And I am NOT a bad person.  In fact, there are many good things about me.  

Let's name them, shall we?

1. I'm good at throwing parties.  Er--decorating at the very least because I really don't know if people actually like coming to the parties...but they DO look lovely!  

2. I have pretty eyes.  Sadly, no eyelashes...but my eyes are rock'n and I know it.

3. I'm a good talker.  Sometimes that is a good thing and sometimes it is a bad thing in some situations but talking in general is a good attribute, I think.  I don't just let things fester.  Out and about!  And sometimes I leave a conversation knowing that I said really awesome things to a really awesome person to make them feel really awesome and that makes me happy. 

4.  I'm a good mom.  I don't always do things the right way, but I try really hard and I am a better mother than my own--which is what we should all strive for, I think! 

5. I am an excellent baker, but not a candlestick maker.

6. I am a good writer.  I don't really fulfill my writing potential on this blog, but at a very early age I won some awards and stuff and I know that if I really focus I could go somewhere.  Seasons.  It's all about seasons.

7. My lips are totally kissable.  Ask Rowdy.  Or don't if you aren't into TMI;) 

8. The way I talk is a mix between valley girl and Utah'n and Pennsylvania Dutch. Totally classic and you won't hear another voice like me. Except my daughter has started saying "whatever" and "totally" which means that perhaps there is one.

9. I am really strong.  Muscle wise and life-wise.  I can lift some serious weights and when it comes to really hard life obstacles I have been there done that.  Nothing to brag about, but life has not been easy for me and I have gotten through it thus far.

10. I LOVE YOU hard.  Like, if I love you I will go out of my way to let you know it.  I'll do random things like send you lame packages in the mail that throw confetti all over your carpet or make you caramel popcorn all the time because you ask.  I love in both action and words and my love language is all over the place because well, sometimes when you love so deeply it can easily go all over the place;)  

There is more, of course, and so I will try to remember these things when I feel that others do not.  And I will remember that I am a good person with a good heart who makes mistakes and will not always be liked, which is okay.  Because well, if you really knew me...you would just KNOW how absurd your un-likable feelings are. And we would probably be friends.  I'm cool like that.  

Out of the mouth of my MIL

2011-10-19T22:36:00.000-07:00

ASS (Annette Shippey Stroud)

I was looking back on a family blog when I came upon my one and only entry. It was a memory I had of when I first joined the Stroud family...and to this day it is the best "welcome to the family" moment ever. If you know my very outspoken, very blunt, but very religious mother-in-law you will totally appreciate this!

Rating: PG-13

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Posted on a family blog July 18th, 2008

I have decided that I need to go to the beginning of my little entry into the Stroud family... and my mind keeps racing back to the moment when I heard my brand spank'n new Mother-In-Law Annette Stroud swear at the attendant at the airport.

We were racing to the Dulles Airport in Washington DC to get on our flight to Atlanta, Georgia. I had been married to Aaron for 4 1/2 days and we had just driven the long drive from Central PA (from our first reception) and were going back home to GA (to our second reception) on the same flight with his mom and brother. We were unprepared for the size of the airport and were in a race against time. A man at the counter told us that we could check our luggage in at the gate because we were late, so we took the tram to the train to the escalator to the gate.

They were letting the last passengers on, but because we did not check our luggage in earlier, we were told we had to wait for a later flight. Annette took it upon herself to beg the woman at the counter to at least let Aaron and I get on because it was our honeymoon, but the woman at the counter would not budge. Annette begged and pleaded but the attendant finally just said, "No! I don't care if they are going to a funeral!"

Then my MIL said, "Well, you're just a little B*#/@!"

My mouth fell open. I was shocked. And proud of my new Mama. And shocked. I couldn't believe that word came out of her mouth. Surprisingly, the attendant still refused to let us on the flight so we were left to wait for a later one.

Honeymoon or not... I think that show was worth it;)

Best New Mother-In-Law Story EVER, right? Do YOU have any?

SOCK it to me

2011-10-19T13:52:00.000-07:00

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Every Christmas I get super excited because I get socks and I cannot get enough. Fuzzy, trouser, boot length - you name the kind and I love wearing them. In fact, the bolder the pattern the happier I am. So, imagine my excitement when I saw THIS. It's a design your own sock contest! I totally want to do it...although I really have no graphic design experience. I mainly only have bow hunting or nunchuck skills. Bummer. But even if I don't take the chance to participate in the ongoing contest, I am really excited to see that the Sock It To Me store is located in Portland which is just a day trip away!

Hello Stocking Stuffers...don't forget me!

Pain and Witchy Ice Cream

2011-10-18T10:19:00.000-07:00

 YES!

(recipe)

I wanted to cry last night.  I had pinched a nerve first in my neck and then in my lower back and it was seriously complete agony. And I was crampy.  

Then I said 2 things. "Spike is whining because I forgot to buy the dog food.  Do you think he can survive on bread another night?  I mean, is he going to starve to death?"  And then right after... "You know what I haven't had in forever?  Mint chocolate chip ice cream.  That has to be some kind of sin to go without it for so long."

Rowdy looked at me and then asked, "Does that mean you want me to go the store and get it for you? I'm really tired..."  I didn't like his attitude so I sad "NO!"  

Then I wanted to cry again because I hurt so bad. I needed a heating pad and I didn't have one and gosh darn it I was going to have to do everything myself.  

So without anyone knowing I grabbed my purse and keys and stomped out of there with pain in every step.  I had blue sweats with a t-shirt on and my long brown puffy coat and flip-flops.  As I sat in the car about to turn the ignition on I got a call from Rowdy that I should just come home and how was I going to lift that big bag of dog food?  I hung up on him.  Then I got a call from Kai saying, "Mommy please come home! I miss you!" with a shuffle and then a "there dad I said it!" and it hung up.

But I started the car up anyway and zoomed out of there.  I got about a block before I had to stop from the pain.  I really didn't have any idea how I was going to lift a huge bag of dog food. So I pulled the car back in and marched back inside and kicked off my flip-flops in complete agony and began pouring rice into a sock to make into a homemade heating pad.  

Basically, the night sucked.  It's funny how pain can make you do crazy things. I was feeling like quite the witch.  

Hopefully today I will be nice and a bit more sane even though the pain is still excruciating. I just need to focus on the sun and the gorgeous changing colors and remember that pain is usually temporary and that I can push through it.

And one more thing...I think mint chocolate chip ice cream could heal the world.  

Pie Party 2

2011-10-17T06:49:00.000-07:00

I can't think of a better way to bring in the Autumn season than with an afternoon of pastries and friends. Since I loved my Pie Party last year, it seemed fitting to make it an annual event!

The weather could not have been more beautiful! Seriously. If I could pick any day of the year this would have been it. Sunlight, a soft breeze, jacket-worthy weather that screamed "put a piece of pie in my mouth!" The location this year was at the Kubota Gardens; an extremely intimate yet popular park and it worked perfectly for the event.

This year I made the decision to chill out. I wanted to stress less and enjoy more, and so that meant that my usual "take home" gifts did not happen. Thankfully, I don't think anyone thought any different (or at least they didn't say so). In fact, I do believe our full bellies were enough to take home as it is! I actually had to BEG someone to take home my pecan pie. I'm not even going to go into the rejection that I felt with that one... heehee

Rootbeer

Hazelnut Hot Chocolate with Whipped Cream

A Zillion Pies

The sit down tables: I used burlap for the table cloth and filled old glass milk bottles with dahlias and pumpkin stems. It was nice to reuse a lot of my decor from last year, but add some new elements as well.

My Pecan Pie. Still baffled at why I had one of these baby's left... ;)

The BUFFET before everyone and their pies came.

ROOTBEER!
(not to be confused with actual beer;)

I just HAD to do my pie recipe page banner once again. It's so easy--tear some pages out of a vintage cookbook and string on twine. It added such a fun whimsy.

A favorite fact: Some photographers walking by started taking some photos at a distance (hoping to be incognito) but then asked what was going on. I kindly offered them some pie and I'm pretty sure those boys will be waiting along the same path this time next year;)

Lov'n the sunlight in this photo. The light was so beautiful! I just sat in it with my eyes squinting-- soaking up the warmth (so welcomed in rainy Seattle) while I talked with my friends.

I so enjoyed all the ladies in attendance and the pies that they brought were scrumptious! And to my dear friends who could not make it, hopefully this post will be enough of a guilt trip;)

As always until next year...

Pie A La More

I Am Woman

2011-10-14T14:25:00.000-07:00

I remember hearing the song I AM WOMAN on my parents record player when I was a young teenager.  I fell in love with it (inspiration for my spotlights)--and I LOVE Helen Reddy.  Her voice is so pure and distinct (maybe her Australian upbringing?) and it makes me happy every time I listen to it.

Dear Helen, I needed you today--I have quite the weekend ahead of me. Thank ya, my dear.

Dear Gecko

2011-10-13T13:37:00.000-07:00

Dear "Tang"(because you have some orange on you that looks like the nasty powdered drink that my mom gave me when we were growing up),

We like you a lot, unlike the powdered drink, and are really really really sorry that we somehow forgot to put you back in your home after we were done playing with you. Please come out wherever you are. And be alive. I don't think our kiddos could handle another gecko loss so soon.

Cordially,

Your family

UPDATE: FOUND!! After 8 hours of searching--Rowdy found him.

My One Thing

2011-10-12T11:08:00.000-07:00

(source)

Oh how I love this quote!

I think that my mind automatically enters into creative mode this time of year because well...it's all about the festivities and giving.  But am I the only one that feels like I have too much going on?  It's like knowing your potential--and interests--and then feeling like you can't accomplish it. Case in point-- I don't have Halloween Decor up yet this year.  What is happening to me?

I have always said that I wish I was really good at one thing rather than a lot of things because I received a blessing once that said, "many are your talents."  Over the years that has bummed me out a bit because I don't feel like I am exceptionally good at anything in particular--just good at lots.  But then recently I have developed the mind frame of SEASONS.  Perhaps, I can be really good at one thing at different times of my life. Perhaps, my many talents can be spread out over my lifetime so that I can keep that concentration and focus on that one thing that I am truly interested in at that moment.  Yay!  Now I don't feel so overwhelmed and inadequate.  There is no need to be tremendously good at many things at one time.  Just passionate about one for now. 

I like that idea.  

This is what we do in our spare time...

2011-10-10T10:44:00.000-07:00

My Bro-in-law Robby recently sent us a picture indicating how he was growing out his beard as well and how Rowdy had nothing on him. We obviously, beg to differ. So we did what any normal family member would do and attacked.

Here is what he sent us with the caption:

"You think Aaron has one? Check this out!"

Here is how we responded:

Dear Robert Stanley Stroud,

We appreciate your recent application for acceptance into the Model Beard Society (MBS). Unfortunately, due to the lack of an exceptional beard, we are going to have to deny your application at the present time. We have also informed the authorities that perhaps your Man Card should be placed in a probationary status. We do however, encourage you to continue your attempt to pursue adequate growth. We have included a photo of inspiration to model what we believe is the standard of excellence in beardsmanship. We hope you will re-apply during the next application period, once you have recovered from this epic fail.

Best of luck in your future manly endeavors,

Professor Beardsley

Please note where the non-flattering picture was taken... in the bathroom with the shower rod in the background in order to show an exact comparison. Details folks, details...

SOOC

2011-10-09T18:50:00.000-07:00

Can we say, "Natural Beauty?"

Straight Out Of Camera

Worst Song Ever

2011-10-07T11:23:00.000-07:00

I had a super annoying song in my head this morning and so I asked Rowdy to sing something else for me. So, in obnoxious husband fashion he sang the most annoying song he could come up with which has been stuck in my head ever since. I thought I would pay it forward...

Autumn...where are you?

2011-10-06T09:46:00.000-07:00

 (source)

+ I think it's odd that this morning I looked outside and the rain and dark clouds were so heavy and that the forecast for later says sunny.  I am doubting it--that this cloudiness will go away because it's just been wet for so long.  The Pacific Northwest is known for it's clouds and drizzle--but I remember so many past Autumns filled with sunny days and breathless wind and I wonder why this one is not the same?  I've been picturing it in my mind--the colors--the scents--the steady chill that warms my soul.  I love the Fall and I want it to come now.  My Saturdays are filled with photo sessions and my Pie Party is on the calender.  I need the rain to stay away from them all. I need Autumn to come in all it's vibrancy and glory.  Perhaps I am just getting ahead of myself and I am being unrealistic, but it is October and I am READY.  Dear Mother Nature, can you be ready too? 

+ I've been thinking about this whole baby thing again.  I don't know why it is so heavy on my thoughts, but it is.

+ I need to cook again.  I have been horrible at this and Rowdy has had to take the brunt of it (as usual) and it's really not fair.  The way things work best in our home is to have a menu, which we just don't right now and it has affected our food habits greatly.  Last night I made blueberry muffins for Kai to take to Blue Day at school and the whole time I kept thinking about how much I like to bake.  And why don't I?  Or why can't I think of anything to make with the chicken breast I defrosted?  Menu. I need a menu.  

+ My job is making me so tired.  I am worn out.  The kids room is a disaster because I just don't even have the energy to hang up their clothes and enforce the cleaning.  I feel like such a slacker and last night Kai had a breakdown since he wouldn't pick up his toys and I could not handle it-so I just didn't handle it very well.  I don't know what to do. 

+ I want to create.so.bad.  Pinterest is bad for me right now-- a reminder that I just don't have the ability to get my craft on time-wise right now and so I have been avoiding this inspirational vice.  Someday.  Someday. 

+ Is this a downer post?  Oh well.  

+ Here's an upside: I finally broke down and bought a new flat iron. I forgot that my hair can be straight and lovely! Yipeee!

Look what we grew

2011-10-05T00:05:00.000-07:00

Our bounty.

Just goes to show that even a 4 foot deck and a couple of pots can harvest some goodness;)

Chasing Boys

2011-10-04T10:11:00.000-07:00

We love this book around here 

Mom: (Listening to music while tuning her daughter out as she is rambling in the background about her friends at school bla bla bla.)

Daughter: ...and then I had to chase after her.

Mom:  What?  Who are you chasing after?

Daughter: Kelsy at school.

Mom: Why are you chasing her?

Daughter: Because she's chasing the boys and I am trying to stop 

her and I'm faster than everyone so they pick me to do it.

Mom: Why is Kelsy chasing the boys?

Daughter: She just likes to. It's her specialty.

Mom: You mean, like baking chocolate cake is someone's specialty?  Like she'll be able to put it on a resume later?  (heehee)

Daughter:  Noooooooo. She's just good at it.

Mom: So what are the boys doing in all this?  They are just running away and letting you two chase them?

Daughter:  Yep.  Every day.

Mom: That's it?  You just chase them for fun?  What happens when you have to stop?

Daughter:  Kelsy just says, "See you later boys.  Catch you next time!" with a gleam in her eye. 

HUG

2011-10-03T11:45:00.000-07:00

We got this new dry erase/magnet board and Rowdy has been so excited to put it up as a place to write our goals/lists/motivational quotes, etc.  The first day I noticed that one said, "Hug Carrie 6x a day."  I laughed at it at the time--but holy cow people the guy is serious.  I haven't been hugged this much since college when I told everyone that a person needs 10 hugs a day to function properly.  And so I went around hugging people. 'Cuz that's just what you do in college. 

But truly, this simple little goal of his has affected me more than I could have imagined.  It's not that we never hug-- it's simply the deliberate consistency of this intimate moment that is somehow making a huge impact on my day. I'm just plain nicer.  So I decided to do a little research on the subject. 

-Here is how a study showed that hug a day could save your life.

-We should all print this out! 

-There is a national hug day! 

-And in case you don't know how, here are the instructions on how to hug;) 

And I love this video. Makes me all hug happy.

To Beard Or Not To Beard

2011-10-02T00:39:00.000-07:00

Please take a moment to vote.  Rowdy is considering dressing as Santa Clause for Halloween--and I believe--growing out the beard through Christmas.  What think ye? 

Beard or No Beard?

PS. He originally decided to grow it out to irritate his Mama who came to visit us last week. She liked it. Go figure.

PPS. Did you know I have never once called Aaron "Rowdy" in person? It's a nickname his friends called him growing up. I just like to write it. I'm cool like that.

Disclaimer: Rowdy is unaware that this poll even exists and furthermore, doesn't even know this picture exists.

Have you seen this heroic story?

2011-09-29T06:41:00.000-07:00

Amazing.

When to give credit

2011-09-28T10:41:00.000-07:00

This issue has been on my mind lately, and I thought I would bring it up in my little corner because it's probably something we all should think about.   

I get a lot of my photos or ideas on the Internet and it's just good manners to give credit to the original author.  If it's someone else's picture I use in a post, you will see a link at the bottom of the picture noting the source. If I got an idea from someone whether in person or online, I try to let that person be referenced.  However, there is so much transferred throughout the web that it can also be very hard to note the actual source (thank you pinterest for doing it so easily). Still, I try...even if it's just the last source and still needs traced back some. And if it is an idea that I got by reading someones blog, I note that's where I got the inspiration and proceed along my way. It's just nice manners to give credit where credit is due, you know?

But in another situation I also remember my friend saying something to me years ago regarding putting my name on a recipe.  I had been using a recipe I got online but added my own spin on it, but still I did not feel like I could say it was my recipe.  She told me otherwise, saying that I had changed it (even if it was simply changing the temp and time) and so therefore I could own it. It made sense then so I agreed and have since called the recipe my own when I pass it around to friends.

So what about a party idea or a theme? I get so much inspiration online that I don't usually note where the source was when I execute it if I post it online.  For instance, the long table idea for my sister's wedding...I saw that idea on lots of websites. Since it was my own execution of that idea I can own it and there really is no credit to give...and how would I give it anyway?  But what about a party theme?  I have been overwhelmed with the attention some of my parties have received. It is flattering to see those ideas re-produced by various people as well.  But I have also come across some sites where something has been introduced as their own and I'm not sure how to take it.  Without reading too much into it, the result should be flattery, and yet it seems strange and I want to say "hey! That was my idea! Shouldn't you say something?"  

But isn't it just natural to want to claim something as your own?  I have had plenty of moments when I have been asked "did you come up with that idea?" and my gut reaction is to say "yes!" because well, it just makes me feel creative...but then my moral code has to say "no."  

So, what is right and what is wrong and are there exceptions or alternative situations where giving credit does not apply? Like in the creative world when it's not someones actual photo or words? And does it even matter? 

It's certainly something that makes me think today...

     
**head on over to this great site for some food for thought...  

The Perfect Pair {My Sister's Wedding}

2011-09-26T14:37:00.000-07:00

A perfect September wedding. Abby wanted to bring in the Fall colors since the leaves have not changed quite yet, and add an elegant and vintage flair to the marriage to her Military husband. SO! We decided to make our main color Navy and add bursts of orange-and it turned out gorgeous. We had it outside at a state park and thank goodness the weather was just dreamy. It was a challenge to do everything ourselves on location, but with a lot of helpers we made it work. It is always nice to see how a concept in my head actually turns out!

The menu at the Groom's request was a Thanksgiving-like dinner.

Turkey

Stuffing

Sweet Potato Souffle- My MIL's recipe

Candied Walnut-Dried Cranberry-Gorgonzola Salad

Rolls
Apple Cider
Apple and Pumpkin Pie

And since the menu was so feast-like, I thought that a long table instead of individual ones would suit the event well. We made the navy runner and napkins, used white sheets for tablecloths, used family and thrift store china, and only rented the flatware, goblets, and chairs.

The floral pumpkin centerpieces we made were vibrant and added the perfect pop of color.

The pears were a fun idea that I had to put on each place setting and I think they were my favorite detail.

The flowers for the whole wedding cost a whopping $70 at Pike Place Market. You should have seen the loads of bouquets we brought home. It's worth getting married in Seattle just for that. My cousin Katherine flew up from Oklahoma as the Maid of Honor and helped arrange them all (she was a particularly excellent pumpkin cutter and I wonder if she is for hire at Halloween;)

My mom made the cake which turned out lovely.

For the take-home gifts we made caramel apples that said "apple of my eye"

Brianna made a super cute flower girl

My brother and sister played and sang their song (I have some seriously talented siblings)

For the guest book we used chalkboards for messages to be written.

love'n his un-tucked shirt and hair

It was the perfect "Falling" for You Day!

Congrats to my sister and her new husband!

Thanks so much to my SIL Helen, My Cousin Katherine, my MIL Annette, and well...all those helping hands;)

The Rowdy Stroudy's

princess & the pea homemade artwork

Yell

When you send your wedding announcement to the President...

Leibster Award and pass'n it on...

How to tell your friend that they are going to China

Slurpee

reading and not-so-nice words

Keyword Search

Because my SIL doesn't believe that we got any snow...

Snowy Thoughts and Hot Chocolate

Winter Wonderland

love note jars

Yesterday

What does family mean?

a perfect moment

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*A New Year*

personalized art...a great gift!

Bittersweet

How I feel today

Build-A-Fort Kit

Christmas Card 2011

Lov'n the things I am seeing and hearing

Christmas Vacation in Georgia

Family Pictures

brown paper packages and then some

Friday and a Family Newsletter

Christmas Decorating

Man-Wrapped

December and Christmas Traditions

wanting, peace, and why don't I?

November Adieu

Dear Santa Clause,

I'm back and a guest post on MMM

I am thankful for them

The forecast calls for rain

Wish List

Utah and why not?

Ornament Exchange 2011

Blonde Boy and Bandaids

Okay-- the funniest video ever

Brianna's CD Giveaway Winner

Three Thursday Things

A video+giveaway that you won't want to miss

A wallet lost

A 10th Birthday Party For My Girl

2 Days

Costume Contest!

A Spell-Filled Night

A Halloween Tale

Utah and Photo Sessions

Fall Friday Feelings

Kids+Pumpkins+Fall

It's Here

Nothings and Somethings

Have I got a gift guide for YOU!

I like me.

Out of the mouth of my MIL

SOCK it to me

Pain and Witchy Ice Cream

Pie Party 2

I Am Woman

Dear Gecko

My One Thing

This is what we do in our spare time...

SOOC

Worst Song Ever

Autumn...where are you?

Look what we grew

Chasing Boys

HUG

To Beard Or Not To Beard

Have you seen this heroic story?

When to give credit

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